so a lot of shit happened…
But mostly learned a lot of life lessons.
I had 2 rough years establishing and trying to get the business to run. I tried bootstrapping it without a job. Lesson:
get a job providing some private cash flow and then some flexibility to build the business.
Then I had a lot of personal dramas and dilemmas with friends. The winner is a combination of having boundaries, not allowing any unwanted value to get sucked, but then at the same time being extremely forgiving for what happened already, always being good vibes and empathic, and then never getting sucked into the toxicity of your friends or relationships.
Then overall I’ve become a more straightforward person. Something needs to get done? there is a problem?
let’s solve it or get it done! most straightforward way and just do it.
anyways what’s next?
I’m focusing on these topics and directions in life:
- game/dating
- coaching lifestyle
- business and generating excess money
- health and a bit of training here and there –> getting in shape
- Art: for me, it’s music and long-term manga/anime
Nothing else pretty much.
I’m finding myself focusing on these topics and myself mostly. I did a lot of charity work and charity-type benefits for my social circle but I’m finding it to make more sense to build on myself. It feels better, and as I am reliable I know the work put into accumulates and there are many net benefits.
With that said, if I find the right people I’d love to gain some solid friends.
So what am I specifically doing for these areas in life?
Game/Dating: trying to talk to potential dating partners at least every day 1 or more. Also checking out some knowledge like Todd V’s stuff, and Owen’s stuff. Also reflecting. I know a lot about this, but it’s really all about charging up my winner effect and getting into an upward spiral. I can auto-correct most issues if they exist.
Coaching – Lifestyle and more: Really this might be the area I’m lacking the most. I was doing charity coaching and 1 paid coaching also with charity terms that I had to refund 100%. So I struggled with my overall charity coaching. With that said, the goals were big and ambitious and over the span of months.
I’d want to pause and stop the long-term stuff. Owen Cook doesn’t really do 3-month boot camps either and if I reverse-engineer this, and add some common sense I’m definitely starting to give hourly consultations and coaching. Maybe a 1-3 day event. Anyway I have nothing planned here, I’m more so looking for requests and the right person to ask me for it, then I can form some shorter offer. If the person is satisfied I can just double down on similar offers and stack them.
Business of money making: Well I have my video agency: racevmarketing.agency. I guess I blew up my anonymity but who cares. We do explainer videos. So I am getting back to my best channel Upwork where I already have some sort of reputation and attacking that. I’ll be sending proposals like 5 a day on weekdays and pretty sure I should be ramping up more videos with increasing prices.
Also to note I got a job with a good salary so I’m not really worrying about money. on the other hand, more money is better.
Health and training: Just the Paleo stuff. And then more salads. Im a 108 kilo 2 days ago. I hope to get to 100 quickly and see how I feel then. Got excess weight.
Yea and then training 1-2 times a day so many days in a row that I really feel sore and tired or by accident skip a workout. then repeat. That should work.
Music and art: Well I’m working on my music. Need to promote it more. Would be nice to have a few mixtapes and singles, do 3 classic albums, and call it quits. An epic run or some sort of that.
Also, I need to create manga that ultimately serves a purpose for my anime. I want to bring in all I learned and experienced into a work of inspiring art for the youth to raise their own motivation and be inspired. Nothing new to be fair. Fate, Dragonball, Demon Slayer, and many others did the same for me. I just want to be very explicit in lessons and flesh them out a lot in my anime. I thought of calling it Prisma. But I need to explore the title more. and the idea anyway.
Anyways enough for a post.
Cheers,
your not so anonymous writer anymore…